In 2021, Marsha made a decision that would change her life. Tired of years of unsuccessful diets, constant weight gain, and fading confidence, she chose to undergo mini gastric bypass surgery with Dr. David Hargroder. Nearly four years later, she reflects on that decision as one of the best investments she’s ever made—for her health, her mindset, and her future.
Before surgery, Marsha weighed 265 pounds and battled the physical and emotional toll of obesity. Like many, she tried various weight loss methods, including structured programs, low-carb diets, and appetite suppressants. Though some efforts provided temporary results, the weight always returned—and often brought more with it.
Her turning point came when close friends introduced her to the concept of mini gastric bypass. Encouraged by their success and supported by her husband and parents, Marsha embraced the procedure. Post-surgery, she lost 110 pounds, dropping from a size 24 to a size 12. While a recent period of emotional stress led to a small weight gain, she credits the surgery for making it easier to regain control and maintain long-term success.
Beyond the scale, mini gastric bypass surgery gave Marsha her life back. Once plagued by social withdrawal, she now actively participates in family events, travels with confidence, and enjoys simple pleasures like climbing stairs and shopping for clothes she once thought she’d never wear again.
Health improvements came quickly, too. Marsha no longer relies on a CPAP machine for sleep apnea, and her cholesterol levels have significantly improved. Although she still manages high blood pressure, she accepts that genetics play a role and is grateful for the gains she has made in other areas.
One of the most powerful shifts she experienced was emotional. The surgery gave her the structure she needed to change her eating habits and mindset. Food was no longer a source of secrecy or shame—it became a manageable part of a balanced lifestyle.
Mini gastric bypass proved to be more than just a surgical procedure; it became a catalyst for lasting change. Marsha now lives with confidence, energy, and pride—an inspiring example of how affordable weight loss surgery can unlock a brighter, healthier future.
If you’ve been considering weight loss surgery in Missouri, Marsha’s journey is proof that the right path, support, and decision can lead to transformation. Reach out to Dr. Hargroder’s office to explore if mini gastric bypass surgery is right for you.
Watch The Interview
Video Transcript
Dr. David Hargroder:
Hello again, everyone. I’m Dr. David Hargroder, and today I’m joined by a special guest—Marsha. Why don’t you tell us a little about yourself?
Marsha:
I’m Marsha Hawkins. I had surgery on June 30, 2021—almost four years ago. Before surgery, I was up to 265 pounds. It scared me how close I was getting to 300, so I had the surgery and lost 110 pounds.
Dr. Hargroder:
That’s incredible.
Marsha:
I've had a stressful six months. I lost my dad and slipped back into some old eating habits as a comfort, and I’ve put on 10 pounds. But I’m back on track now.
Dr. Hargroder:
That’s good to hear. It’s not uncommon for stressful life events—like a loss, divorce, or financial difficulty—to trigger weight regain. But having had the surgery, you’ve got the tools to bounce back. And if it ever feels like too much, don’t hesitate to reach out.
Marsha:
Thank you. I even brought before-and-after pictures. And I just got a new driver’s license photo—I couldn’t believe the difference.
Dr. Hargroder:
You look fantastic. You mentioned wearing size 24s before surgery. What are you wearing now?
Marsha:
I’m in size 10s or 12s now—mostly 12s.
Dr. Hargroder:
What made you finally decide on surgery?
Marsha:
I’ve been heavy most of my life. A couple of friends’ sisters had the surgery, and one of them goes to my church. She looked incredible. She talked to me about the surgery for a year, but I kept saying I could do it on my own. Then I gained another 20 pounds.
My husband and I talked about it, and he said, “If we needed a new car, we’d find a way to make payments. Why not for your health?” My parents were also really supportive. So I did it—and I’m so glad I did.
Dr. Hargroder:
Had you tried other methods before?
Marsha:
Oh, yes. Weight Watchers, fen-phen, low carb—you name it. I’d lose 40 pounds and gain back 50. The surgery helped because I couldn’t overeat, and it gave me the space to fix my mindset.
Dr. Hargroder:
What changes have you noticed in your day-to-day life?
Marsha:
I’m more confident. Even doing the laundry—I pull out my jeans and think, “Wow, I fit in these.” I used to avoid social events and hide from people. My husband had to go to weddings and funerals alone. I wouldn’t even go to ball games. But now? I go out, I show up, and I enjoy life.
Dr. Hargroder:
Was it mostly about physical discomfort or more emotional?
Marsha:
Definitely emotional—embarrassment and depression. I’d eat in secret and feel ashamed. But my husband never said a negative word. He was supportive, and so were my parents. My mom even said, “I’ve got my daughter back.”
I can sit in a seat without feeling uncomfortable. My son and I went to Ireland last year, and for the first time, I didn’t need the airplane seatbelt extended. It was such a great feeling.
Dr. Hargroder:
That’s powerful. Have you noticed any improvements in health?
Marsha:
I had sleep apnea—I don’t need the CPAP anymore. My blood pressure hasn’t improved much, though I still take meds. But my cholesterol is fantastic now—around 130.
Dr. Hargroder:
That’s great. Blood pressure doesn’t always resolve, especially if there’s a family history, but the other gains are still huge. Any surprises or unexpected benefits?
Marsha:
The stairs! At work, I used to take the elevator to avoid huffing and puffing. Now I run up and down those stairs all day. It’s night and day.
Dr. Hargroder:
That’s likely improved cardiac function—studies show 100% of patients experience better heart efficiency within a year.
Marsha:
I believe it. And my relationships have improved, too. I want to go places now. My two best friends are tiny and have been since high school. I used to avoid going out with them. Now we do everything together, and they’re proud of me.
Dr. Hargroder:
What’s something you wish you’d known earlier?
Marsha:
I wish I had done it 15 years sooner. Giving up Coca-Cola was tough, though. Funny story—I work in drug court, and when I lost weight, everyone joked they needed to drug test me!
Dr. Hargroder:
Any advice for someone considering surgery?
Marsha:
Do it. The only things you’ll lose are weight, inches, and low self-esteem. I’ve wasted so much money on diets and junk—this was the best investment I ever made.
Even my brother, who used to tease me, is proud. And now I tease him—he’s the one gaining, and I’m the one offering him my old 3Xs!
Dr. Hargroder:
You seem so full of life. You’ve earned those wrinkles.
Marsha:
That’s right. I’m 62, and I feel great. I just can’t say enough good about you, Sherry, and Carla. You’ve got a great team. I’m looking forward to this year’s Christmas gathering too.
Dr. Hargroder:
Thanks, Marsha. This has been wonderful. Keep an eye out for this interview—we’ll post it on our YouTube channel in the next couple of weeks.
Marsha:
Thank you, Dr. Hargroder. Have a great day.
Dr. Hargroder:
You too!